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Hand holding a framed holiday gift guide titled 'Spicy Holiday Gift Guide 2023' by Fraser Valley Sex Therapist.

Spicy Holiday Gift Guide 2023: Exciting Ideas for Everyone

day 20: Ohnut

OHNUT stretchy 4-ring buffer with customizable penetration depth.

My Favourite Place to Purchase

Explore our holiday gift guide for unique intimate wellness gifts. Click the link below to go directly to the item and enhance your experience with our selection of sexual pleasure products!

Intimate Wellbeing--OhNut

Opportunity for Savings

Use code Fraservalleysextherapist at checkout to save 20% off site-wide on all orders over $69, perfect for your holiday gift guide featuring intimate wellness gifts and sexual pleasure products!

Why I Love It

These stackable, jelly-like rings are great intimate wellness gifts, providing a gentle buffer (penis or insertable!) during penetration. This can be particularly helpful for those who experience pain or discomfort during deep penetration. You can use as few or many rings as you like to achieve the desired result. Made from soft and super stretchy material, these rings are easy to clean and won't impede the penis owner's sensation. Consider adding them to your holiday gift guide as a unique option among sexual pleasure products.

day 22: We-Vibe Ditto

We-Vibe Ditto prostate massager with packaging in purple box.

My Favourite Place to Purchase

Explore our holiday gift guide for unique intimate wellness gifts. Click the link below to go directly to the item and enhance your experience with our selection of sexual pleasure products!

Intimate Wellbeing--We-vibe ditto

Opportunity for Savings

Use code Fraservalleysextherapist at checkout to save 20% off site-wide on all orders over $69, perfect for your holiday gift guide featuring intimate wellness gifts and sexual pleasure products!

Why I Love It

The Ditto is a fantastic vibrating anal toy for those starting to explore anal play, making it a perfect choice for your holiday gift guide focused on intimate wellness gifts. It can be controlled by either a remote or the We-Vibe app! With its tapered tip, skinny neck, and wide base, it's designed to be booty-safe. Remember: The anus is NOT self-lubricating, so be sure to use a high-quality, water-based lubricant (such as Okanagan Joy!) to enhance your experience with this sexual pleasure product!

day 23: The Adventure challenge--connection cards

The Adventure Challenge Connection Cards box with a deck partially visible.

My Favourite Place to Purchase

The Adventure Challenge: Click the link below to explore our holiday gift guide featuring intimate wellness gifts and sexual pleasure products that bring joy and excitement!

The Adventure Challenge connections cards

Opportunity for Savings

Use code FVTherapy10 at checkout to save 10% off site-wide, making it the perfect opportunity to explore our holiday gift guide featuring intimate wellness gifts and sexual pleasure products!

Why I Love It

This collection of 50 spicy prompts serves as a fantastic addition to your holiday gift guide, helping couples break the ice when discussing sex and intimacy. We understand that partners who openly share their likes and dislikes tend to enjoy much more pleasurable sexual experiences. Use these intimate wellness gifts to strengthen communication and enhance orgasms alike, making your connection even more fulfilling with these sexual pleasure products!

day 22: We-Vibe Ditto

We-Vibe Ditto prostate massager with packaging in purple box.

My Favourite Place to Purchase

Explore our holiday gift guide for unique intimate wellness gifts. Click the link below to go directly to the item and enhance your experience with our selection of sexual pleasure products!

Intimate Wellbeing--We-vibe ditto

Opportunity for Savings

Use code Fraservalleysextherapist at checkout to save 20% off site-wide on all orders over $69, perfect for your holiday gift guide featuring intimate wellness gifts and sexual pleasure products!

Why I Love It

The Ditto is a fantastic vibrating anal toy for those starting to explore anal play, making it a perfect choice for your holiday gift guide focused on intimate wellness gifts. It can be controlled by either a remote or the We-Vibe app! With its tapered tip, skinny neck, and wide base, it's designed to be booty-safe. Remember: The anus is NOT self-lubricating, so be sure to use a high-quality, water-based lubricant (such as Okanagan Joy!) to enhance your experience with this sexual pleasure product!

day 24: Urban Tantra: sacred sex for the 21st century

Book cover of Urban Tantra featuring a tattoo on a bare back.

My Favourite Place to Purchase

Your favourite local independent bookstore, where you can find an amazing holiday gift guide featuring intimate wellness gifts and sexual pleasure products!

Why I Love It

This holiday gift guide to tantric practices is crafted in an accessible way that blends ancient wisdom with modern techniques. For those looking to explore intimate wellness gifts and enhance their sensual play, this is the perfect book for you!

day 25: Nectar Love Butter+

Jar of Nectar Love Butter with CBD and THC, aphrodisiac infused.

My Favourite Place to Purchase

Check out the Nectar link below for our holiday gift guide, featuring a selection of intimate wellness gifts and sexual pleasure products that are perfect for your loved ones.

Nectar Love butter+

Why I Love It

Perfect for the 420-friendly people in your life, this edible moisturizer is a standout in any holiday gift guide (and it also comes in a version that does not contain CBD and THC!). All natural and smelling like a Bounty Bar (drool!), it transitions from a solid into a silky smooth oil once heated in your hands. I love this for personal massage, as an intimate wellness gift, moisturizing after shaving, or addressing any areas struggling with eczema. It's also a great addition to your collection of sexual pleasure products.

day 26: Womanizer wave

Innovative 2-in-1 stimulation shower head by Hansgrohe Womanizer, awarded for design and quality.

My Favourite Place to Purchase

Explore our holiday gift guide for unique intimate wellness gifts. Click the link below to go directly to the item and enhance your experience with our selection of sexual pleasure products!

Intimate Wellbeing--womanizer wave

Opportunity for Savings

Use code Fraservalleysextherapist at checkout to save 20% off site-wide on all orders over $69, perfect for your holiday gift guide featuring intimate wellness gifts and sexual pleasure products!

Why I Love It

Sometimes, incorporating self-pleasure into your routine can feel like just another task on your already busy to-do list, making it easy to skip as you move on to your next obligation. However, by tailoring a practice you're already engaged in, such as showering, to include a bit of self-love, you can save time and cleanup! The Womanizer Wave is featured in our holiday gift guide as one of the best intimate wellness gifts, offering three different modes specifically designed for clitoral stimulation, but it also functions as a regular shower head. It's easy to install, comes in three stylish finishes to match your decor, and no one will ever know that you have sexual pleasure products just a button away!

day 27: Magic wand micro

Compact Magic Wand massager next to a keychain with two keys.

My Favourite Place to Purchase

Explore our holiday gift guide for unique intimate wellness gifts. Click the link below to go directly to the item and enhance your experience with our selection of sexual pleasure products!

Intimate Wellbeing--magic wand micro

Opportunity for Savings

Use code Fraservalleysextherapist at checkout to save 20% off site-wide on all orders over $69, perfect for your holiday gift guide featuring intimate wellness gifts and sexual pleasure products!

Why I Love It

Itty bitty and absolutely freaking adorable, the Magic Wand Micro is small but ever so mighty! With 3 hours of runtime after each charge, this delightful intimate wellness gift can be taken with you anywhere you go, making it a perfect addition to your holiday gift guide. Much like its bigger cousins, the Micro is intuitively easy to operate and will not leave you disappointed when it comes to enhancing your experience with sexual pleasure products!

day 28: Aneros helix syn v

Black ergonomic prostate massager with red dots on side arms.

My Favourite Place to Purchase

Explore our holiday gift guide for unique intimate wellness gifts. Click the link below to go directly to the item and enhance your experience with our selection of sexual pleasure products!

Intimate Wellbeing--aneros helix syn v

Opportunity for Savings

Use code Fraservalleysextherapist at checkout to save 20% off site-wide on all orders over $69, perfect for your holiday gift guide featuring intimate wellness gifts and sexual pleasure products!

Why I Love It

When I first heard that using this toy for prostate play could allow penis-owners the ability to have multiple (full body!) orgasms without ejaculating, thereby maintaining the ability to extend play sessions, I didn’t believe it was possible. However, I was gladly proven wrong! This model's addition of vibration makes it one of the ideal intimate wellness gifts, perfect for self or partnered play. It definitely deserves a spot in any holiday gift guide for those exploring sexual pleasure products.

day 29: no video posted, manscaped platinum package, 5.0 ult

Manscaped grooming kit with trimmers, deodorant, and underwear, inside a branded box.

My Favourite Place to Purchase

Discover Manscaped online as part of our holiday gift guide for intimate wellness gifts and sexual pleasure products. Click the link below.

Manscaped Platinum Package

Why I Love It

A fantastic option for your holiday gift guide, the Platinum 5.0 Ultra kit offers a variety of intimate wellness gifts, making it perfect for anyone looking to elevate their grooming routine. This comprehensive kit includes:


- The Lawn Mower® 5.0 Ultra Groin & Body Hair Trimmer

- Weed Whacker® 2.0 Ear & Nose Hair Trimmer

- Crop Soother™ Ball Aftershave Lotion

- Crop Preserver® Anti-Chafing Ball Deodorant

- Magic Mat® Disposable Shaving Mats

- 2-in-1 Shampoo + Conditioner Refined® Scent

- Body Wash Refined® Scent

- The Body Buffer Silicone Body Scrubber

- Deodorant Refined® Scent


(*The removal of body hair should always be left to the discretion of the individual, and is purely a matter of personal preference! Your body is perfect however you like it, and this kit is one of the best sexual pleasure products to enhance your experience.)

day 30: Double ply dragons leather flogger by exquisite pain

Pink and black leather flogger with a wooden handle on textured surface.

My Favourite Place to Purchase

Explore our exquisite pain toys online, perfect for your holiday gift guide and ideal intimate wellness gifts. Click the link below to discover a range of sexual pleasure products.

Exquisite Pain Toys

Why I Love It

These custom pieces are absolutely next level! Handcrafted in Alberta, Canada, these floggers are of the highest quality, and the owner will work with you to customize your piece every step of the way! Exquisite Pain Toys also offers many educational opportunities for those looking to expand their knowledge of the BDSM community, making them a fantastic addition to any holiday gift guide for intimate wellness gifts. Be sure to give them a follow and stay up to date on what they're offering in the realm of sexual pleasure products!

That's a wrap!

Woman and Santa with a dog on a decorated porch.

Thank you so much for following along this season! All of your likes, shares, comments, and messages have truly filled my heart. My biggest hope is that this holiday gift guide will inspire you to get curious about your sexual pleasure, opening your mind to the many forms intimacy can take. 


While sexual pleasure products and extras are never needed, they can be a fun way to bring novelty into your experiences, expanding your pleasure pathways and deepening your connection to yourself and your partners. 


Have fun exploring this holiday season, and make sure to shop local whenever you can <3 


From my home to yours, 


Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, and may you enjoy a pleasure-filled end to your year!


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