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2023 spicy holiday gift guide....continued!

day 20: Ohnut

My Favourite Place to Purchase

Intimate Wellbeing: Click the link below to go directly to the item!

Intimate Wellbeing--OhNut

Opportunity for Savings

Use code Fraservalleysextherapist at checkout to save 20% off site-wide on all orders over $69!

Why I Love It

These stackable, jelly-like rings provide a gentle buffer (penis or insertable!) during penetration, which can be particularly helpful if one receives pain or discomfort during deep penetration. You can use as few or many rings as you like to achieve the desired result. Rings are soft and super stretch, easy to clean, and won't impede penis owner's sensation.

day 22: We-Vibe Ditto

My Favourite Place to Purchase

Intimate Wellbeing: Click the link below to go directly to the item!

Intimate Wellbeing--We-vibe ditto

Opportunity for Savings

Use code Fraservalleysextherapist at checkout to save 20% off site-wide on all orders over $69!

Why I Love It

The Ditto is a great vibrating anal toy for those beginning to explore anal play, and can be controlled by either a remote or the We-Vibe app! It's got a tapered tip, skinny neck and wide base, so it's booty-safe. Remember: The anus is NOT self-lubricating, so you'll want a good quality, water-based lubricant (such as Okanagan Joy!) to use with this product!

day 23: The Adventure challenge--connection cards

My Favourite Place to Purchase

The Adventure Challenge: Click the link below to go directly to the item!

The Adventure Challenge connections cards

Opportunity for Savings

Use code FVTherapy10 at checkout to save 10% off site-wide!

Why I Love It

This collection of 50 spicy prompts will help break the ice when it comes to discussing sex and intimacy with your partner. We know that couples who share about their likes and dislikes tend to have much more pleasurable sexual experiences than those who stay quiet. Use these cards as a way to stregthen communication and orgasms alike!

day 22: We-Vibe Ditto

My Favourite Place to Purchase

Intimate Wellbeing: Click the link below to go directly to the item!

Intimate Wellbeing--We-vibe ditto

Opportunity for Savings

Use code Fraservalleysextherapist at checkout to save 20% off site-wide on all orders over $69!

Why I Love It

The Ditto is a great vibrating anal toy for those beginning to explore anal play, and can be controlled by either a remote or the We-Vibe app! It's got a tapered tip, skinny neck and wide base, so it's booty-safe. Remember: The anus is NOT self-lubricating, so you'll want a good quality, water-based lubricant (such as Okanagan Joy!) to use with this product!

day 24: Urban Tantra: sacred sex for the 21st century

My Favourite Place to Purchase

Your favourite local independent bookstore! 

Why I Love It

This guide to tantric practices is written in an accessible way that melds ancient wisdom and modern practices. For those seeking to dip their toes into more sensual play, this is the book for you!

day 25: Nectar Love Butter+

My Favourite Place to Purchase

The Nectar link below

Nectar Love butter+

Why I Love It

Perfect for the 420-friendly people in your life (though also comes in a version that does not have CBD and THC!) This edible moisturizer is all natural, smells like a Bounty Bar (drool!), and transitions from a solid into a silky smooth oil once heated in your hands. I love this for personal massage, moisturizing after shaving, or addressing any areas struggling with exzema. 

day 26: Womanizer wave

My Favourite Place to Purchase

Intimate Wellbeing: Click the link below to go directly to the item!

Intimate Wellbeing--womanizer wave

Opportunity for Savings

Use code Fraservalleysextherapist at checkout to save 20% off site-wide on all orders over $69!

Why I Love It

Sometimes adding self-pleasure into your routine feels like just another step in your already busy to-do list, making it an easy item to nix as you move to your next busy thing. By tailoring a practice you're already doing anyway, such as showering, to include a little self-love, you can save time and cleanup! The Womanizer Wave has 3 different modes designed for clitoral stimulation, but doubles as a regular shower-head, too! Easy to install, comes in three finishes to match your decor, and no one will ever know you've got pleasure one button away!

day 27: Magic wand micro

My Favourite Place to Purchase

Intimate Wellbeing: Click the link below to go directly to the item!

Intimate Wellbeing--magic wand micro

Opportunity for Savings

Use code Fraservalleysextherapist at checkout to save 20% off site-wide on all orders over $69!

Why I Love It

Itty bitty and absolutely freaking adorable, the Magic Wand Micro is small but ever so mighty! With 3 hours of runtime after each charge, this is one toy that can be taken with you anywhere you go! Much like it's bigger cousins, the Micro is intuitively easy to operate and will not leave you disappointed!

day 28: Aneros helix syn v

My Favourite Place to Purchase

Intimate Wellbeing: Click the link below to go directly to the item!

Intimate Wellbeing--aneros helix syn v

Opportunity for Savings

Use code Fraservalleysextherapist at checkout to save 20% off site-wide on all orders over $69!

Why I Love It

When I first heard that using this toy for prostate play could allow penis-owners the ability to have multiple (full body!) orgasms without ejaculating (therefore maintaining the ability to extend play sessions!) I didn’t believe it was possible, but I was gladly proven wrong!  The addition of vibration in this model makes this a fun toy for self or partnered play as well.

day 29: no video posted, manscaped platinum package, 5.0 ult

My Favourite Place to Purchase

Manscaped online, click the link below

Manscaped Platinum Package

Why I Love It

A great alternative to your average shave-kit, the Platinum 5.0 Ultra kit comes with:

  • The Lawn Mower® 5.0 Ultra Groin & Body Hair Trimmer
  • Weed Whacker® 2.0 Ear & Nose Hair Trimmer
  • Crop Soother™ Ball Aftershave Lotion
  • Crop Preserver® Anti-Chafing Ball Deodorant
  • Magic Mat® Disposable Shaving Mats
  • 2-in-1 Shampoo + Conditioner Refined® Scent
  • Body Wash Refined® Scent
  • The Body Buffer Silicone Body Scrubber
  • Deodorant Refined® Scent


(*The removal of body hair should always be left to the discretion of the individual, and is purely a matter of personal preference! Your body is prefect however you like it!!)

day 30: Double ply dragons leather flogger by exquisite pain

My Favourite Place to Purchase

Exquisite Pain Toys online, click the link below

Exquisite Pain Toys

Why I Love It

These custom pieces are absolutely next level! Hand crafted in Alberta, Canada, these floggers are of highest quality and the owner will work with you to customize your piece every step of the way! Exquisite Pain Toys also offers many educational opportunities for those looking to expand their knowledge of the BDSM community, so be sure to give them a follow and stay up to date on what they're offering!

That's a wrap!

Thank's so much for following along this season, all of your likes, shares, comments and messages filled my heart! My biggest hope is that this guide will encourage you to get curious about your sexual pleasure, opening your mind to the many forms intimacy may take. 


While toys and extras are never needed, they can be a fun way to bring novelty into your sexual experiences, expanding your pleasure pathways, and deepen your connection to yourself and partners.


Have fun fucking around this holiday season, and be sure to shop local any opportunity you can<3


From my home to yours,

Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, and have a pleasure-filled end to your year!


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