It has been such an honour to work alongside many fantastic individuals in the field of sexual health and wellness!
One company in particular that I truly adore partnering with is Intimate Wellbeing, a hub for supporting individuals in expanding their sexual wellness through offerings of high-quality toys, lubrication, enhancement products AND free virtual seminars linking viewers with a variety of sexual experts in this field! Don't let their motto of supporting mid-life women fool you....there's a little something on here for EVERY body (hint, there's also a space with all of my favourite products for both penis and vulva owners!!)
This women-owned, Canadian company gives us all of the feel-good vibes, and they have been SO gracious as to give my followers 20% off orders over $69 on their website, just use code FraserValleySexTherapist (all one word!) at check out!
I've added a link to their website below, to make for easy shopping!
When I was originally contacted by Dan at Red Door Products, I instantly knew this would be a partnership I was interested in--and meeting him in person solidified it!
Whether you are a client, a friend, or some random person who has fallen into this conversation with me, you’ve likely heard me say something to the effect of “It’s time we let go of the shame and stigma associated with enhancing vulva owner pleasure! Just use the damn lube!!” That’s because a good quality, body-safe lubricant can enhance sexual satisfaction in vulva owners by up to 80%!! When I found Okanagan Joy, it almost instantly replaced all of my favourite products because of how versatile it is. It’s silky, long lasting, doesn’t throw off vaginal pH, and it’s pump top allows for quick and easy access (even when you’re hands are all genital fluidy!!) Because it’s organic, food safe and water based, it’s also safe to use during oral sex and can be used on your toys.
I like to refer to the We-Vibe Melt as my "Unicorn" (and it bundles PERFECTLY with Okanagan Joy!). This clitoral stimulator uses Pleasure Air technology to offer the most delightful suction to the clitoris (which is how roughly 4/5 vulva owners experience the most pleasure!) Not only is this ahhhh-mazing for solo play, its sleek structure makes it a fun addition to partnered play as well! And it’s also waterproof, so it can join you anywhere you feel like melting ;)
This is a wonderful addition for anyone who suffers from penetrative pain caused by deep insertion. The Oh Nut acts like a bumper along the shaft of a penis or other insertable so that depth can be controlled in a comfortable and effective way. The rings are stackable so you can customize how much of a bumper you might need in that moment, and they allow for the maintenance of pleasure on those who are wearing them. Oh Nut also carries a vibrating addition that can be used in conjunction with the other rings to enhance blood flow to the area and elevate pleasure for both parties.
These are a must-have if you’re looking for a fun way to spruce up date night! I love that We-Vibe has developed three varieties of these kits so that they are inclusive to varying couple dynamics (Available in Moxie/Bond, Moxie/Moxie and Bond/Bond options at intimatewellbeing.com). Both the Moxie and the Bond are app controlled, so you can make your partner squirm both inside and outside of the bedroom!
The Ditto is great for those beginning to explore anal play, and can be controlled by either a remote or the We-Vibe app! Remember: The anus is NOT self-lubricating, so you'll want a good quality, water-based lubricant (such as Okanagan Joy!) to use with this product!
When I first heard that using this toy for prostate play could allow penis-owners the ability to have multiple (full body!) orgasms without ejaculating (therefore maintaining the ability to extend play sessions!) I didn’t believe it was possible, but I was gladly proven wrong! The addition of vibration in this model makes this a fun toy for self or partnered play as well.
Taking the place of my long-standing contender for Best Wand (The Magic Wand Mini-Rechargeable is still a great option though!), Fun Factory's Vim Flexible Wand is a powerful, dynamic wand with an easy to hold handle and weighted motor which makes this an ergonomic option that will take you from 0-60 in seconds flat! It can also be used as a solo or partnered toy on any body, with it's broad head being great for targeting the clitoris, labia, anus, perineum, shaft, etc.
A delightful change from direct, motorized stimulation, Lelo Beads™ Noir are the sleek and seductive take on the World’s bestselling Ben Wa balls that promise irresistible pleasures during foreplay and beyond. Worn alone or on a date night out, the inner balls respond to movements with subtle weighted-vibrations, enhancing your feeling for the pleasures to come. Wanting to add more sensory play into your mindfulness practice? This could be a great place to start!
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